But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. A: Thanks for your question, and congrats on all your recent discoveries!
To make the mysteries of the clit a little less intimidating, we asked a bunch of people with vaginas what they actually want sexual partners to do to their clitoris. I can make myself orgasm in seconds. Not feeling rushed makes a massive difference as well. Missionary position stimulation is the only way I can orgasm through sex.
For women and people with vaginas , orgasms most commonly come from the clitoris, located above the vaginal opening and urethra 1,2,3. Erogenous zones are areas of the body that elicit a sexual response when stimulated. The clitoris is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones due to its high concentration of nerve endings 4,5. By stimulating an erogenous zone, a sexual physiological response can be set into motion. The clitoris is part of the vulva, the name for the external parts of female genitalia.
Yeah, that basically sums up your clit. In other words, clit stimulation is a must when it comes to mind-blowing sex. But given that your clitoral glans—that nub you can see on the outside, which contain the most nerve endings in the clit, 8, to be exact—can be anywhere from 2. Happy experimenting! You already know pretzels taste good, but contorting your bodies into one can make for explosive pleasure.